It can be quite frustrating when your twin flame starts to avoid talking to you and ignores any communication from your side. You might end up obsessing over why your twin flame is not returning your text or calls and what you must do to get them to reply.
We understand that as twin flames, your connection with each other exceeds normal levels of relationships. You connect at a deeper emotional and spiritual level which creates an exceptionally strong bond of unconditional love. That is because twin flames are usually two parts of one soul that have been split into two bodies.
Most people confuse twin flames and soulmates. But unlike soulmates, twin flames often share the same strengths, weaknesses, and ideologies. They also share the same wounds from the past life and the same purposes in this life. That is what makes their connection far more intense, which makes it much harder to endure being ignored by the other.
But if your twin flame is ignoring you, he or she is probably not trying to ghost you. Twin flames do not ignore each other to cause pain, and they never leave each other out of hate or spite. It is also possible that you are in the intimacy vs isolation stage of psychosocial development. So if your twin flame has been ignoring you, it can be one of these three reasons.
- They are mirroring your fears that you may have failed to address.
- They are trying to highlight your lack of self-love and care.
- They are trying to go through a period of growth separately.
So instead of overthinking, you can utilize these tips to deal with the situation appropriately.
Heal Yourself
In all probabilities, your twin flame could be away from you to heal themselves. So you should also focus on fixing any traumas that you might be going through. You can start by addressing any fears you have about your life or relationship and deal with any false negativity.
If you are not able to figure out where to start, you can speak to a relationship psychic about your problems. Relationship psychics can tell you how to deal with:
- Any unfulfilled vows or oaths from your past life
- Any traumas that you may have carried on through this life
- Heal any mental wounds from the past life or this life
- Healing the mental traumas from your childhood
It is important that you stop distressing your twin flame’s absence and utilize this time to take care of yourself. You may find that your twin flame will return once he or she learns of your journey of healing and self-understanding.
Connect With Your Higher Self
We understand that it can be difficult to focus on yourself when you are enduring your twin flame’s absence. But just like self-healing, connecting with your higher self can also be an indirect way to attract the attention of your twin flame.
It allows you to enhance your vibrations and show your twin flame that you are trying to improve yourself. These are some of the easiest ways to connect with your higher self:
- Exercise
- Indulge in activities that you love, such as dancing, singing, reading, or anything else that lifts your spirit
- Meditate
- Indulge in breathing exercises
- Volunteer to help others
- Let go of toxic people in your life
Understand the Male Hero Instinct
The male hero instinct is a term defined by James Bauer in his book ‘His Secret obsession’ and has been generating a lot of buzz in the world of psychology. It provides some explanation for why some men are committed completely to a relationship while others tend to pull away.
The theory is that men have an instinctive drive to protect those they care about so they can earn the respect of others. This instinct gets amplified when they have a twin flame relationship with a woman. So if your twin flame is a man, he might be trying to stay away from you because he feels that he is protecting you from certain aspects of this relationship.
Some women tend to get defensive and such scenarios and portray that they do not need to be protected. However, it is best if you do not react this way in such circumstances, and try to talk to your male partner about why he feels the need to protect you.
Give Them Time and Space
You might feel tempted to text or call your twin flame repeatedly to get their attention. But the best thing to do in such cases is to give them time and space to deal with whatever predicaments they are going through at the moment. If you try to invade their space forcefully, you could end up driving them further away.
Remember that a twin flame relationship is supposed to be intense on both sides, and it is also a journey of learning and growing by sharing mutual love. So instead of trying to get their attention, wait for your twin flame to realize those intense feelings, and they will be pulled towards you automatically.
We hope that you now have a better understanding of why your twin flame might be avoiding you and what you must do in such circumstances. You must realize that if that person is your twin flame, he or she is not doing it to hurt you.
So instead of trying too hard to attract their attention, try to understand the reasons why he or she might be behaving this way. It will allow you to focus on productive ways to remedy that.
